| | Re: Red flags?
I'm sorry... i call this a major red flag. If you are dating someone and promise you'll call them, you had better call them. If you are going overseas and it goes days without hearing from them... somethings wrong with that! Its one thing if you he told you ahead of time that work will prevent him from calling (coal mine), its another thing when he just disapears. Your sure he isn't a secret agent? Sorry, bad time for humor. I just see the fight he chose to pick out of the blue, just prior to him leaving was a sign of shady business to come.
Have you called him?