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Old 11-24-2010, 04:01 PM   #241 (permalink)
Conrad
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Default Re: Calling all MEN! I need your help!

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Originally Posted by nice777guy View Post
Thanks.

I find the "Nice Guy" stuff very similar to codependency. When working on codependent behavior, you tell people that you are making certain changes.

For some reason that I haven't fully thought out in my head, it makes more sense to keep the Nice Guy stuff a bit more guarded like you did.
I can tell you why.

Nobody wants the rules to change once they've figured out the game.
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