Originally Posted by niceGuybutAddicted
Let's be realistic though. In our age and time you can't stop doing all porn once and for all. It's admirable, but probably that's too much to ask.
Its not too much niceguy. It might feel that way right now, but my H has stopped all porn. everything. we dont even see suggestive movies. We dont own a tv. we dont watch tv shows. He's only slipped up once in a couple years, and even then he didnt really look at the site. He wont get a phone that he cant get a site blocker on. that's why he doesnt have a droid. he'll get an iphone because it has a program that effectively blocks all porn. everything. not even a suggestive picture shows up.
but to do what it takes to quit you have to really want it, for yourself. Not for someone else. not because you cant get it up for a 'real' girl, not because someone else tells you you're missing out, and not because you feel guilty at times. you'll have to find out why its worth it for you to quit. Right now, its not worth it for you. I only hope you are honest with your girlfriend about your addiction. If not, well, because im working on curbing my temper towards people like that, i cant say what i think.
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