Originally Posted by kajira

Last arguement was last night - Nothing resolved - For the first time in 3.5 years I went out with some co-workers for a drink after work. It was something we had planned and I had discussed with the previous night. At about 15 min before I was to leave from work he calls "can you pick up milk", he did not remember at all. It is little things like this that make me feel like he never listens. On top of everything else my grandfather passed away yesterday morning, so the day was emotionally charged. As I was out with co-workers he proceed to call, drill me about where I was, he wanted to come and have a drink with me, I said no, "i didn't want him there" anyway it got ugly from there. He has apoligized over and over and this morning. Why do men behave badily? I just wanted a few minutes to breathe............txs for listening