Hey, watch it, love. I'm not from Mars. I am from Earth.
If you are so unhappy, never be afraid to get a divorce. Staying in a marriage were the kids see ya cry, yell, fight, throw things, say I am leaving when the kids get out of school isn't good for kids to hear and see either. I think it is worse on them to take and hear it everyday, than to just go on and end the marriage. Just my opinion.