| | Re: Cheating Husband got caught 2times, dont know what to do I got 3children
Why wouldn't he cheat? You excused his behavior so quickly. The only consequence was that you cheated too...but he doesn't even know it! This is far from a healthy relationship on either side.
If you want to do what is best for your kids, get out and find a stable healthy relationship or go without one. Children learn from the examples set by their parents and neither of you are providing a good lesson right now. Sometimes the emotional hurt from leaving a failed relationship is better than the long term damage from staying in one that will never work.