I dont know about everybody else...but I can give you my opinion. An ex is an ex for a reason...either one or the other or both has decided that they do not want to be with the other. When there are children involved it IS inportant to keep a cordial relationship with the ex for the comfort of the children. However, I think where you went wrong is you seemed to believe that your ex meant more to you than your pregnant girlfriend. She had every right to be depressed and insecure about that fact. TELLING her to go to a hotel so your ex can stay with you...that probably was not the best decision...however, it is the decision that you made and as the old phrase goes..."you made your bed now lay in it". The best thing you can do right now(I feel) is to spend some time repairing the relationship you have without trying to move forward. Asking her to marry you after the things that you did probably confused her. She is emotional anyway with the pregnancy. Feeling insecure about your baby's father WHILE you are pregnant is depressing. She must have felst abandoned and alone...not to mention jealous of your ex. As I said in the beginning...these are my feelings on the matter...take it as you will but I would really suggest just putting your ex behind you(except for matters of the kids) and focus on the family that you are creating with your girlfriend. Once you have fixed the problems and she has become a little more secure with you THEN ask her to marry you, she may invite the question a little better. Good Luck to u I hope you work things out.
