Originally Posted by sbbs
Are you interested in getting back together with her at this point, or do you want a trial separation?
We have been seperated since July, she walked and never looked back.
Would I be interested in getting back? Right now that's not even an option. She likes to tell me she doesn't love me, never did...so I am trying to prepare for the worse case scenario.
One thing about her, when she makes up her mind, she'll stick to it to prove a point. So I see no shot at reconsiliation.
Right now she shows no remorse, zero...
she has said in her musings I never did love her, and I was just afraid of being alone, that I would have stayed in this unhappy marriage for the kids sake only.
Would I consider reconsiling given the chance, well I have given this thought...I love her, I love my kids....with work, it could be saved.
It's a bad situation, and if I wasn't living it, I wouldn't believe it.
I'm just trying to make it day to day.