Originally Posted by heatherlindsay
What do you mean by it drives them insane? I am a person with insecurity issues and its to the point that if i say the wrong thing that my partner will go ballistic and be emotionally abusive. Is this normal for guys to be emotionally abusive and almost even physically abusive towards there partner if they have major insecurity issues?
Well. Yes. I used to volunteer at a battered women's shelter. LOOOONG time ago. It is quite common, though not exclusively the case, that an abuser will prey on a person who can't stick up for themselves.