Draconis,
Thanks for sharing that with me, i m sorry that u have gone thru a break...but i m glad that u have learnt to keep the romance for years with 4 kids..........not many men are like u!
kajira,
I m sorry about your marriage! yes i totally agree with you but i m at loss as in how to get my husband understand this
Ok last night i spoke to him about the need for couple time and whats quality couple time means to me...........I started off well but tooo bad i messed it again by sounding like complaining.......arghh
I think i need to practice the art of communication!
He said, he understands that we miss a lot of romance and then he promised that he is going to bring back that soon, well, guess what he said? He said he's planning to renovate our current house (we are gonna stay in a rental house near husband's work place so that we can be together) as beautifully as he could and present it to me on a surprise romantic day..........huh! boy...i have to wait for a couple of years for that day and its going to cost him a bomb!!! why doesnt he understand that i m not asking for materialistic things? Why he doesnt perceive the little things which are free are what i want???? i was simply pissed off but stayed cool
Thanks for reading
