Originally Posted by draconis

Okay marriages fall into the mundane because [i]people let them[/] to solve this you need to romance her from here on out. Start with a dinner date once a week. If she cooks all the time take another day to start cooking for her. Say I love you often. Thank her for the things she does. Tell her how much she means to you.

Never push her. Start doing things slowly. Once she starts to come back keep things up. Don't let things go on cruise control because you "have her". Instead make her the most important thing in your life (other then children). Make dates. Help her around the house.

She is looking for that newness spark that we all love but then take for granted once we think we have someone for life. Give it to her until the very last day.

Enjoy what you really have.

draconis