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Workingitout · 12-11-2010, 02:58 PM

It's ok to ask questions. It's imperative that he answer them. The alternative is that you will create stories in your head that will forever torture your mind. Make a written list. You'll find that some won't be necessary to be answered. Some will be answered by him giving you information on other questions.
If you can, stay away from specifics like "what car were they in", or "what was she wearing". This way, you won't get triggered every time you see that thing (I f@cken can't stand the site of a Toyota Prius and they are everywhere!)

12-11-2010, 02:58 PM	#8 (permalink)
Workingitout Member Join Date: Sep 2010 Posts: 238	Re: Recently found out...how to stop asking details of affair? It's ok to ask questions. It's imperative that he answer them. The alternative is that you will create stories in your head that will forever torture your mind. Make a written list. You'll find that some won't be necessary to be answered. Some will be answered by him giving you information on other questions. If you can, stay away from specifics like "what car were they in", or "what was she wearing". This way, you won't get triggered every time you see that thing (I f@cken can't stand the site of a Toyota Prius and they are everywhere!)