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Originally Posted by Thewife
Draconis,
Thanks for sharing that with me, i m sorry that u have gone thru a break...but i m glad that u have learnt to keep the romance for years with 4 kids..........not many men are like u!
kajira,
I m sorry about your marriage! yes i totally agree with you but i m at loss as in how to get my husband understand this 
Ok last night i spoke to him about the need for couple time and whats quality couple time means to me...........I started off well but tooo bad i messed it again by sounding like complaining.......arghh  I think i need to practice the art of communication!
He said, he understands that we miss a lot of romance and then he promised that he is going to bring back that soon, well, guess what he said? He said he's planning to renovate our current house (we are gonna stay in a rental house near husband's work place so that we can be together) as beautifully as he could and present it to me on a surprise romantic day..........huh! boy...i have to wait for a couple of years for that day and its going to cost him a bomb!!! why doesnt he understand that i m not asking for materialistic things? Why he doesnt perceive the little things which are free are what i want???? i was simply pissed off but stayed cool 
Thanks for reading  |
Many people (more men then women) think money can buy or rent love. It is the one thing they can give. I work for $10 an hour so this $100 gift is like me giving you ten hours of my time.
It is a shame that most do not see that $10 and nine real hours is worth much more to a relationship. That those little things every day mean so much.
Keeping the flames burning is like keeping a bonefire going. Do you wait until it is dead before throwing more wood on? No you keep putting wood on slowly if you want to burn it all day long.
With love you can never let the embers go out. It is a shame that to many people never got that.
draconis