Originally Posted by vthomeschoolmom
How to say this without hurting your feelings. You will know a man loves you because of ALL his actions toward you, not just in the bedroom. As a matter of fact, your husband is not acting at ALL loving toward you by taking advantage of your free sex while continuing down the divorce road. He must know you are not interesting in the divorce.
In my opinion, once he is gone, you may want to look into therapy to determine why you would allow someone to use you for sex when he doesn't want you.
Well you said it much better/nicer than I did VT.