Originally Posted by kajira

If you want to inflict change in a realtionship you have to first look at yourself and see what is that you can change or accept about yourself. Woman have the tendency to want to "fix" others and that is our nature. We ourselves may be the one that needs fixing. I may sound cynical, however, we as individuals have to be happy with ourselves and when we are not that is very hard to admit and it is easier to blame others...