Originally Posted by Mrs.LonelyGal

I used to be hesitant of receiving oral... especially in my dating days.
It wasn't that I thought my body was gross, but occasionally I'd be self conscious about the level of cleanliness after a long day at work.

To me the biggest reason I didn't let anyone do it, was that I felt very vulnerable. It also seemed extremely intimate- more so than sex. So I reserved it for the person I felt truly in love with- I felt like allowing someone to go down on me and making me cum that way, was a really a release of control for me. I had to trust the person who was doing it with every fiber of my being.

I am not sure if this is your wife's problem or not...

Some people aren't comfortable losing themselves to the abandon of pleasure- some people like to remain in control of their bodies and mind and what comes out of their mouth. When I cum that way, I thrash and say some pretty ridiculous stuff. I often feel slightly foolish afterwards when i remember how carried away I got.