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Originally Posted by evenow
I have what may be a stupid question. What if what you really want to fix is yourself? It's actually a lot harder to blame myself for everything that happens and I'm not sure that is too healthy either....
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Originally Posted by evenow
Whoops. I type stupid when tired.
I meant it's harder for me to blame others, and easier for me to blame myself for everything. I can't tell if something is genuinely my fault or not anymore.
It creates a weird sort of situation where I'd like to be almost anyone else other than myself.
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My bad for reading it wrong.
There is never a need to shoulder all blame. Taking what is yours is normally more then one can handle and one person alone doesn't make a good relationship for long.
draconis