| | Re: Nervous to have sex !
After reading your other post I would say you might be putting the cart before the horse with this post. Focus on resolving your issues in your current situation before you worry about things that will happen in your next. But....to answer your question I would say both men and women are somewhat nervous before having sex with someone new. When the day comes and you are single and available to be in that situation, simply say....I've not done this with someone new in a VERY long time. I am sure if she is a woman you really feel worthy of being intimate with, she will be totally fine with the awkwardness that will possibly follow. Most of my women friends have told me the first time with someone new is always pretty bad but it gets better with practice! We tend to know this going into it.