OrinTyie

Thank you both for your replies. I feel like what you said GAsoccerman is the more mature thing to do. Can't get to know this guy right now in my current state though. Time/counseling is probably what is needed.

Severing all communications at least for right now and revisiting things after some time has passed is what I'd prefer. Is asking for that too much though? Is it the adult thing to do to say who my wife can and can't have as her friends?

I say I trust my wife right now but I'm beginning to doubt that I'm there 100% yet. Can't help but think they talk about their relationship in some way or the possibilities of one in the future. Maybe those talks are about a friend relationship or it is strictly platonic about day to day stuff and photography like she says it is. Just can't help to think there is more being said she just omits from me asking about their conversations to not hurt me. Even after telling her to tell me everything because I need to know the truth on everything I still feel like she is sparing me right now at times.

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