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I'm just gonna toss this out there and say the once or twice he did this with his gf it didn't go over well and he is worried it just won't help you achieve pleasure or an orgasm.
My suggestion would be the next time you go to give him a bj tell him instead you want to try mutual masturbation and when you have driven yourself crazy enough watching each other(and after he has reached orgasm), plead with him to come finish you off with his hand so you can lay back and relax.
If he absolutely won't try mutual masturbation, then there are likely other issues as well.
Tip: When he does eventually attempt it, try to use clear terms when directing him to your pleasure spot(s). Example: when he's working on the clitoris, instead of using ambiguous terms like "deeper" use the phrase "push straight down".
If he is indeed nervous about it he will also be moving around a lot even if you are insinuating you are enjoying what he is currently doing by moaning, so he will need to hear things like "stay right there" or "don't move" or "just keep doing that".