My W continues to show tremendous commitment to me and our marriage. To be loving and considerate and kind and affectionate. Her desire to be a great partner has trumped her (temporary?) loss of raw physical desire.
As for me - well lately I have been more frequently substituting affection for sex (even though she is willing to connect) because I feel bad for her that her desire level is low.
She is being generous with herself and I am being understanding and patient which isn't hard to do when you know your partner REALLY loves you.
Originally Posted by WadeWilson
that's the kind of example I'm looking for... Those are very core elements to look to when making decissions that can affect an relationship... It sounds very selfless and understanding, I too try and find ways to enrich me and my wife... As do she... But it's somewhat comical and awkward when both are trying to tell the other to take it easy for a day...