| | Re: Complicated Divorce questions (different States).
Since you guys never signed any marriage documents, it makes sense that there are no legal documents on file anywhere.
If your wife is really concerned about what happens in the event of your death, it might make sense for you to make a will and show it to her. It might also make sense for you to make her the beneficiary of any life insurance policies you may have.
Once again, I'm not a lawyer, but I don't think your wife really has anything to worry about.