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Originally Posted by atula
My husbanda nd me have been married for 3 years now and also have an 8 month old baby boy...The thing is although I make my decision and the family's decisions on my own. my husband just has to ask anyone and everyone for an advice whenever there is an issues. It might be about taking a loan, or a new sofa or something to do with a job etc
How do I make him understand that atleast now that he is a father, he has to make decisions on his own. or what will we teach our son....
Do help...
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Start with small things like ordering food at a resterant. Voting today at the local election. Have him go with you clothes shoping for your son ( I bet if you hold up a pink and a blue shirt and ask what is best for your son he'll make a choice real fast.)
My wife was bad with money when I first met her. She still isn't perfect but at times she is better then I am and does most of the shopping for the house now.
But walking through small choices to bigger ones will help so they know that they can make a choice. More important they will learn how.
draconis