Originally Posted by Thewife

To me the biggest problem in my relationship is LACK OF ROMANCE (only after having kids so dont know if this is permanent or temp) and MIL, she simply pisses me off when it comes to my husband and kids...................she had never acknowledged me (or anyother DILs) as her family and most of the time i spend a few minutes with her i will end up hurt. This has caused numerous quarrels and problems between me and husband. I dont know if she needs fixing or I!!!!! But like its said in this thread, i'll try and fix myself instead of trying to fix her.