Re: For Thewife
Okay first it seems he will do plenty for you and the kids. Explain the companionship you need, as well as the love and connection. Tell him that you feel the marriage is strong but drifting away and it is best for the kids and you if the two of you have that connection because you don't want to divorse the man you love.
The look thing, I think most people do it. Some are more innocent then others. I'd worry if it went farther then it is but not from what you have said. Don't worry about how you look people change with time. I am sure he has gained weight etc too.
We all get depressed and if you think counciling will help by all means go, but I think many of your issues are similar to PPD. You need and deserve some of your husbands attention.
It sounds like he is a great father now he has to reinvest in being a husband too.
draconis
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