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Jabasag · 01-06-2011, 06:15 PM

I'm not sure I completely understand this post. "I had a heart attack & he didn't tell me for several months. I found out when the hospital & doctor bills started coming in."
How could you not know you had a heart attack? In any case. You need to take it one day at a time and with him. Guys get super defensive when they feel like they're not making enough money. For some reason they feel like it's their own personal failure and not real men or something, which is why he never told you. But it's not too late to take charge, go find a job and work your way back to financial stability. I think you have fantasies of escape and your old hometown has become this huge looming paradise in your mind. It's probably going to be no better there. You guys can work this out, but it's much much much easier of you do it as a team.

01-06-2011, 06:15 PM	#2 (permalink)
Jabasag Registered User Join Date: Jan 2011 Posts: 7	Re: Just lost I'm not sure I completely understand this post. "I had a heart attack & he didn't tell me for several months. I found out when the hospital & doctor bills started coming in." How could you not know you had a heart attack? In any case. You need to take it one day at a time and with him. Guys get super defensive when they feel like they're not making enough money. For some reason they feel like it's their own personal failure and not real men or something, which is why he never told you. But it's not too late to take charge, go find a job and work your way back to financial stability. I think you have fantasies of escape and your old hometown has become this huge looming paradise in your mind. It's probably going to be no better there. You guys can work this out, but it's much much much easier of you do it as a team.