| | Re: Could use some encouragement/advice/feedback again
MXRacer, have you ever heard of "you'll find whatever it is you are looking for if you really want to" LOL. I think when you see friends who are miserable and they happen to have kids, its just because you don't have any in your direct sight who DON'T have kids and are miserable. I have seen both, and its the same problem, they let life come inbetween their relationship. Instead of growing and living together, they start growing apart. Kids or no kids.
I do think you are going to be great. I love MY kids. Can't stand a lot of other kids, but I absolutely love mine. They don't annoy me. Other people's kids? There is a good chance they will LOL. That's normal I think.
Good luck and I hope you find answers you are looking for !!