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tater03 · 11-06-2007, 04:10 PM

I would have to say I understand that you don't like the humilation and she should not do that. But and yes there is a but, turn the tables and feel for a minute how you would feel if it would have been her that went to the dr's for a potential bad diagnosis? Thank goodness it wasn't but what if it was? Then you would have dropped a bomb shell out of left field on her. You don't like how you feel when she humilates her and she would not like the fact that you felt you couldn't tell her about this beforehand.

11-06-2007, 04:10 PM	#6 (permalink)
tater03 Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 156	Re: Privacy in relationships I would have to say I understand that you don't like the humilation and she should not do that. But and yes there is a but, turn the tables and feel for a minute how you would feel if it would have been her that went to the dr's for a potential bad diagnosis? Thank goodness it wasn't but what if it was? Then you would have dropped a bomb shell out of left field on her. You don't like how you feel when she humilates her and she would not like the fact that you felt you couldn't tell her about this beforehand.