Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - Wife found reminder note of points to talk about.ripped it up. Boundaries. fit test?

jonny · 01-08-2011, 02:17 PM

I'm going to read more closely later - and really digest - when i can be alone.

But what I'm gathering - is I'm not straightforwardly stating that " my boundary is this - yadda yadda yadda. " but I'm making the statement with action and through situations.

Letting her put the pieces together for herself so to speak? Seeing - if I do this - I get a bad reaction etc?

OR - does one state. 'Honey - You're belittling me and treating me like a child, which I will not tolerate.'

or something?

Thanks again everyone!

Thanks Catherine.

01-08-2011, 02:17 PM	#7 (permalink)
jonny Member Join Date: Jan 2011 Posts: 90	Re: Wife found reminder note of points to talk about.ripped it up. Boundaries. fit te I'm going to read more closely later - and really digest - when i can be alone. But what I'm gathering - is I'm not straightforwardly stating that " my boundary is this - yadda yadda yadda. " but I'm making the statement with action and through situations. Letting her put the pieces together for herself so to speak? Seeing - if I do this - I get a bad reaction etc? OR - does one state. 'Honey - You're belittling me and treating me like a child, which I will not tolerate.' or something? Thanks again everyone! Thanks Catherine.