Originally Posted by major misfit
There is a positive here....most women stick through thick and thin (usually) with the fathers of our children. They're not "just" our husbands...they're the FATHERS of our CHILDREN. She's going to look at you with different eyes. HOW she looks at you is largely going to depend on you, though. I've heard many a woman say that they fell in love with their husbands all over again when watching them with their baby.
And..there are some people who don't understand the "childFREE by choice" concept. Don't sweat it.
I think I would rather my wife be with me because I'm her husband, not because I'm her childs father. Just as I wold like to be her husband FIRST and a father SECOND. She is way more important to me than any child could be. Maybe I'll change my tune after July, but I don't think so...