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Originally Posted by Doubt&Wonder
Impossible due to what? - - - Fear of What...True Intimacy maybe?
And please keep in mind that this new bonding experience will be uncomfortable for some when they first start it, but give it a try and in time you will find it desirable........ besides: Practice makes Perfect.
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Well I guess I'll just come out and say it. If this is inappropriate, let me know and I'll edit it. What if you can't look into their eyes because of the particular positions you like?
Perhaps you are right about a fear of true intimacy. I'm not sure quite what that means. But certain positions (many of the ones that face the spouse) are kinda boring for me. When I'm not looking at him I don't focus on his face, and I can focus on other things: my needs, his response, the feeling...etc.
It's kinda like when you smell a smell or listen to a sound and close your eyes to take it all in.