draconis

NoIinThreesome ~ Keep in mind two things.

1) I agreed with you and at some level most of the people here did too.

2) You asked for opinions and they gave them to you. No one is here to be a cheer leader all we can do is offer what we believe on the information we have or understand it. Six people went out of their way to help you, you don't have to agree with them or use their advice.

It was nice that you thank everyone.

As far as the dentist thing that was a bad example for your point. If you have to pay money for something it does affect your wife.

Like I said the simple fact you told her you were going to the doctors was honest and the information she needed to know then. There are things medically I have discussed with my doctor that my wife still doesn't know. No as of I was being mean or with holding but things she'd never understand or might try to hard to fix what she can not.

I don't ask about her obgyn etc. Most couples really don't. I don't always ask her how her day playing WOW went. I do sometimes but never understand the answers anyways.

draconis