striving

Thanks for all the feedback...I bought the Love Dare book and am doing that, one day at a time. Something has to change, and why wait till death for the other person to take the initiative? I might as well do it. I have nothing to lose.

Yeah, shocking to find out that most marriages are struggling. I guess I always thought marriages were generally good, with the partners being good friends, etc., but with a few bumps along the way. On the contrary, it seems to be all bumps and struggles. I want to like my husband, I want to love him, I want to be in love with him. I want to dream about him when I sleep. So here goes - my mind is going to lead my heart until my heart willingly follows....