Originally Posted by rosarija

My wife and I are going through some rough times, for some time now we have been having problems and she felt I was neglecting her and she even thought I was having an affair. For about 2 months she has told that she was done doing anything to fix things and that it was all on me, I guess I could have done more and know it seems to be to late. A week back she told she was having some feelings for someone else, after we had some arguments and I told her we should separate we started talking and a couple days later she told that the other thing was done with. I just can't get her to jump on board to fix the relationship, I love her very much and don't know what to do.