Originally Posted by denise1218

Okay...update. It has now been 3 weeks since my husband moved out. I still have good days and bad days. When we have talked or texted some have been good and some have been bad. Last weekend I finally figured out that I am the only one that can create my happiness or sadness. I dont have anyone else to depend on but me. Yes...it totally sucks to think that not only am I miserable but my husband is as well. My husband just texted me today saying that he doesnt want to be alone anymore...in my opinion it doesnt' have to be like that. I want(ed) to work things out between us....he doesn't. I don't understand why he doesn't want to get thru this....but he doesnt'. So I have got to live my life. I felt horrible when he told me that he has cried everyday this past week and wants to find someone so he is not alone. Trust me....this being alone thing sucks big time. I miss the companionship. He joined a dating website I just found out. This past weekend I was looking at the dating websites...but did not join...or so I thought....little did I know...I guess I looked at his profile. I am not trying to keep tabs on him...but that is what he thinks now. He will not listen to me otherwise. So now what I am suppose to do?