| | Re: How to get the Truth out of Man...
I did show him. His only response - well one day looked good, the others were bad. (oh fer gawds sake) He was of course nice to me again the day of the marriage counselor. I asked him why he was being so nice to me now, he told me not to worry about it and that i didn't "need to know". Um, yes i do.
The MC talked to us, and H gave him a "i don't know" kind of update. Then he talked to me and I explained everything. He told me i needed to be prepared for a plan B. Ie, a separation. He said H has some kind of entitlement complex and that his head is really screwed on wrong. He said that it didn't matter how much i did right, that unless he gets on board it didn't matter. Then he suggested talking to H for five minutes. He ended up talking to H for 45 minutes. Hopefully something got done.
H's 'homework' this week from the MC was to think of things to be affectionate about (huh?)
Mine is just to be myself. shrug. ok.