Originally Posted by ChrisInNOVA
Not at all.
How much relationship-ing can you really be doing if you are constantly here?
A lot of people on the interwebs pretend to be something they're not. I just happen to feel you're one of them because your actions and your words don't exactly match up.
Lots of people enjoy using discussion forums & when we have down time @ home, @ work, or while running errands we may talk on the forums. There are other people who park it - continuously sit on the forums (or on facebook, etc).
Having a relationship means spending time together.
Looking at your postings, you are always
Unless you have figured out a way to manipulate the fabric of time & space itself, something
just doesn't add up.
Nah, you have many different types of relationships, but they eventually boil down to a few things such trust, respect, boundaries and feeling loved. How you fill in the rest is up to you.
She just happens to be more on the serving and understanding side. He seems a bit more headstrong but understanding and respecting her needs. If that works, than it works. Just saying that green, while being a lovely woman, could never be my type. I'm also a somewhat serving guy, so I need someone who's more "dominant" for lack of a better word. Lots of girls would not like me for being "soft" but my gal likes it. She enjoys being treated as a princess. That does not mean that me and green don't have clear hard boundaries and we might actually defend them harder as we allow more.
About being on the forum 24/7
She could just have the pc on, check mail and forum, do stuff and come back 2 hours later to check again. You don't need to be hitting F5 all the time to reply often