Originally Posted by moonangel
It's very easy, Conrad. I'd leave. I don't live my life making excuses for everything. If something felt wrong, I'd bring it up and talk about it. Not me doing all the talking but listening to him and see where he's coming from and try to understand him as well. I'd expect the same in return. If the talk didn't work, I wouldn't waste my time trying to fix it. I'd move on.
But the talking to someone else on the phone part. I wouldn't waste time trying to fix that. It would have been clear in the beginning that, that was a no no and if done, then I'm out the door for good.
Sorry, but I have self-respect.
I'm glad somebody has self-respect, mine seems to have been thrown out with the babies and the bathwater (thanks Conrad).