Hi This is Dr.Marty,
I read your post and was touched by how you must feel trapped. I did not post an answer because you asked to hear from someone in your situation and I would be approaching things from a different perspective and did not want to be intrusive. If your interest in me posting an answer here. Let me know. I check the site as often as I can, but feel free to email me
drmarty@bellatlantic.net and I put my post on . If not I understand and am glad you are reaching out for support. No matter what take care
Dr.Marty
34 years of bringing people together