walter

Thanks for the replies! Sure, when she says no I do not push it, I've never done. Although I'm excited about anal, for me it's not about 'anal', but trying to bring her to the highest levels, no matter which way. Since we can have a very high quality time without anal sex it doesn't matter from this point of view it's just about bringing her to the highest levels. I saw her orgasm during this and it was different, she was way beyond anything in what she's been before. After some years of very low sex drive on her side we seem to fix this problem and her libido increases again. Now I'd like to give her anything to keep her this way and to keep her enjoying the sex with me. I thought that this could be a new game on our palette, but apparently it's not. Since I don't want to mess things up and turn her down I am really careful not to do anything she doesn't like.

So I just got the feeling it has something to do with the 'anality'. That's why I asked. What do you think, should I give a shy try sometimes to see if she's in the mood or should I rather leave the whole topic?