| | Re: 'Man Up' 'No More Mr Nice Guy' falling across the line to ahole / grumpy bugger .
Oh - I should tell about a text convo with my wife today.
She is attacking my manhood a lot lately - In a joking manner. Trying to get under my skin.
Last night - son gets a magnifying glass - what's this. Wife says " That's what mommy uses to find daddys penis" He laughes - holds it up to his eye - runs at me. " See daddys penis!? " I laugh - because it is funny. The old me would take offense. She knows this.
I do a little - she's , afterall, attacking my manhood. but I don't let it show.
After he goes to bed. I tell her - you probably shouldn't say things like that Crystal.
"Why? You insecure"
"ha. not at all. Wait till he picks up the magnifying glass at pre school and starts repeating your words though."
She also attacked it on facebook. About me losing weight - lots of responses - didn't know you had weight to lose!" etc. She said " he hid it in his pants." I came back with a comment about my member. " Thanks honey - you know I don't go bragging - but thanks for telling everyone about the weight I'm hiding in my pants" I was thinking it would end there. but back came
"Nothing to be proud of my dear."
Anyway. It's happening often - so I'm coming back at her with retorts.
We shall see what goes on next. She's pissed, yet intrigued by this new me at the same time.
Really hot and cold about it.
Confused it seems.
I'll bet you anything in the world. If you told my wife that me manning up, doing what I'm doing would change how she feels towards me - She would say - no way. She would side with the other women on this site that talk against it.
I'll say it's working.
I'm not even close to 'out of the woods' yet - but I'll keep posting. The support is important to me. And hearing success stories / reading others experiences was and is important to me as well.