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Bigwayneo · 01-22-2011, 01:47 AM

We already planned on the MC. Only problem is paying for it right now. (due to some job problems) we are both un-insured. Though are kids are mind you. I am Atheist to the core, so a pastor will not work either, we thought about that. So hopefully we can find someway to get it in. Is it normal for her to act like nothing happened? It has only been a 2 weeks since I found out, and I find my self still full of different emotions all the time, and sometimes just staring for 20+ minutes at a wall, or my dinner, thinking about what happened, and they did.....Not being able to get it out of my head. Then she asks whats wrong, I tell her if she wants to know, I will tell her, but that she should know... Then for example, the "roommates" last day is tonight, and she gave me hassel when I asked her to stay somewhere else with the kids for the one night, was that wrong of me? I don't think it is, being I work the graveyard shifts (not to much longer), and I wont be able to work worrying about what might still happen.

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Bigwayneo Member Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: Duluth, MN Posts: 269	Re: Wife and Best friend.... We already planned on the MC. Only problem is paying for it right now. (due to some job problems) we are both un-insured. Though are kids are mind you. I am Atheist to the core, so a pastor will not work either, we thought about that. So hopefully we can find someway to get it in. Is it normal for her to act like nothing happened? It has only been a 2 weeks since I found out, and I find my self still full of different emotions all the time, and sometimes just staring for 20+ minutes at a wall, or my dinner, thinking about what happened, and they did.....Not being able to get it out of my head. Then she asks whats wrong, I tell her if she wants to know, I will tell her, but that she should know... Then for example, the "roommates" last day is tonight, and she gave me hassel when I asked her to stay somewhere else with the kids for the one night, was that wrong of me? I don't think it is, being I work the graveyard shifts (not to much longer), and I wont be able to work worrying about what might still happen.