Senica13

Thanks for all the responses.. I know this is a hard question to answer not knowing all the variables of the relationship. Our target has been a serious relationship for some time now and we have both made this clear to each other. I fear that maybe she isn't ready to commit as much as she initially thought herself to be. As far as a phase running its course, perhaps, but I am not interested in hearing that excuse.. I think we are beyond that point. We have worked hard to develope mutual loyalty and trust in our relationship I have been straight forward with her and she knows i expect the same.

Mustang - there hasn't been anything serious other than some clashes of interest and disagreements ect.. but i have to say that initially in the beginning of our relationship we had a difficult time seeing eye to eye because we both have different viewpoints on things, but mostly the way we handle situations. It has been work in progress to find that middle ground but the outcome has been good and we seem to get along fine, and have learned a lot from each other. trust has never been an issue other than a few questions about other lady friends that were quickly resolved.