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Originally Posted by kajira
Thank you Jewel. We just got done talking again and he thinks I am going to go out and "do" someone to hurt him, because that is just the way I am, according to him. That sure helps the situation.........Why can't I just say it is over and I am done? What am I afraid of................
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NOw let me get this straight...
He is trying to work things out because he thinks you will go out and have sex with someone else to get back at him? It sounds like you have bigger problems that his affair. It sounds like there are some general inequalities, tied to his sense of entitlement, that he thoroughly expects you to accept.
I say you should proceed as you see fit...and consider getting a good divorce attorney. There is no excuse for his reasoning, in this day and age! If he didn't want you seeking fulfillment elsewhere then he shouldn't hae had the affair...pu-leeeze!