It takes two to raise a family. Don't mean to sound like I am man bashing

, however, it seems that men can take a nap, leave, shower or make plans when they want too. We are the ones who think, ok what about the kids? The men's attitude is well I work she can take care of it, or I've earned the right to do what I want..there does not seem to be any equality, not even 60.40. Furthermore, if we bring it up then we are nagging......