Re: separated one month- uncharted territory
i think what you told her was really good. you let her know you respect her needs but that you also have a few of your own. its good that she knows what the guidelines are if she watns to be with you. and you let her know you arent just a doormat to be walked on. i think it was a really good way to approach her.
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