GreenEyes

Here is my thought when trying to think things like this through, we only get this one life, we don't get a chance to do it over, you have to do in this life what will make you happy and make you look back at your life when you're old and say "I wouldn't have done it any other way". I'm not one to give advice, as I have problems of my own, so who am I to say what anyone else should do. I tell my H sometimes, because of these problems, if you don't love me anymore, if you would rather be with someone else or just don't want to be with me anymore, please tell me so that I don't waste my life being with someone that doesn't love me, and so he doesn't waste his life being with someone he can't stand, really, what's the point in that??? I'm not a big advocate of divorce either because I think people anymore use that as an easy out instead of working on things and giving it time, of course me and my H have children so I tend to look at it a little differently because we have that to consider. However, if you guys have done counseling and have worked and worked and it's still obvious to you that it's going nowhere, then you have to do what makes you feel right with your life.