Originally Posted by Catherine602
Have an emotionally honest relationship by always examining what you are doing in reference to how you would feel if she did the same to you.
With that wholeheartedly. I am not saying that you shouldn't ever be able to go out and hang out with the boys for a while, but I am saying that you have to be reasonable about it too. No, you don't need to go out every weekend. She is at home with the kids I assume? And now you decide that you are going to start having guys nights every weekend? I would find that a bit odd too. If you are okay with her getting all ****ted up and hanging out at the bar until the wee hours of the morning with some girlfriends, then by all means go ahead. But if you think that might for one second upset you, reevaluate and compromise.