Never say Never
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01-31-2011, 06:31 PM
Join Date: Jan 2010
Location: Pacific Northwest
Re: Never say Never
Very well-written and right on target factually.
Fog does not mean they aren't feeling it--obviously disloyals do have an emotional attachment to their OP--but it does mean that the ability to think in a clear-heading, rational way is clouded. I've seen time and again where a loyal, having known their spouse for decades, will say "Oh he/she would never do that!" and in their normal, unfogged way of thinking they wouldn't! But the fog is partially due to the brain chemistry, and partially due to the defense mechanisms. And WOW you explained it so clearly!
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