 Re: right fighting!?!?!?
This is something my H and I need to work on too.
I'm hoping that if *I* stop and seek to understand his pov, he'll do the same for me.
He believes that any time we have two different points of view, we're "competing." and he wants to shut down the conversation.
I'm certain both of us can be heard, and neither of us has to win or lose.
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